What makes a True Friendship ?
March 16, 2016
1-Common interests: this probably ties people closer to their friends , as many of us would like to admit it. If our interests diverge , we wouldn't find joy for spending the time together.
2-Common values: however , it is not really necessary to start any friendship , if our values are too divergent , because , at some point we would realise that our thoughts , our reaction and our point of vues will never meet.
3-Respect to be respected: there is no way to have a good relationship with your friend if you can't exchange respect which the most important in any relationship.
4-Honesty: how can two friends or more set a good relationship without honesty ? Based on lies, there is no relationship that can survive. Lies tend to create problems and break the trust.
5-Common believes: It is not necessary to have exactly the same believes , the most important is to accept and respect each others believes.
6-Equality: if any of us need support, then we will definitely find someone who cares about us and always there for us , same as we would provide the support and the encouragement for them in time of need.
7-Never expect too much: all the relationships need to be away from the "expecting too much".Who ever the person in your life try to avoid the too much expecting because that will surely cause disappointment.
8-Love: Yes it is !!! Love your friend , your family member , your partner and your dearest people… Love everyone around you that deserve it , because that is the purest feeling that any person can have.
9-Trust and confidence: Trust the person you are dealing with when you know it is time to start trusting them, and the most important be confident and be the person who you are.
As usual, never hesitate to express your feelings or to jump into it. Once u'll find that good friend, the person next to you that everyone is dreaming about. you'll enjoy your life with and share the bittersweet of it… Friendship is so important and a precious gift.
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